Saturday, April 7, 2012

Trip to our Nation's Capital - Cherry Blossoms - African Art - Hirschhorn - Souvenirs

My boss gave me the day off so I took a Hagey Coach to Washington DC. Met the bus at Montgomery Mall. Unsure of where to go, I arrived 45 mins early after missing the first jughandle turn, but fort'ly there was a U-Tube, oops, U-turn.

Bob Bergey, our coach driver. His wife Glenna was in the last row so she couldn't be a backseat driver, said Bob, who not only had a great sense of humor but was very knowledgeable about just about everything.

The name Bergey and also Hagey are common names in Perkasie where Bob lives. Here's his awesome website.

Our Hagey coach cost half a million dollars. It contains enuf diesel fuel - not cheap at over $5 a gallon - to drive to Florida and back.

Most of the cherry blossoms had already fallen off, but since there are dozens upon dozens of varieties Bob led us down an abandoned lane where there were scads of them.

Bonnie Woods took this photo of me. Four of us sat in the very front seat - the best place to sit b/c you can talk to the driver and also have a great view.

Next to me was her dad Tom. Across the aisle was red-headed 25-yo Bonnie, who's an artist, and her mom, a woman in her 50s who had quadruple bypass surgery at Doylestown Hospital, of which she couldn't say enough. Symptoms were: she climbed up a flight of steps at work and couldn't catch her breath. Husband Tom took early retirement from Verizon.

Lincoln Memorial. Martin Luther King gave his "I Had a Dream Speech" here. I did not climb up the stairs as I was conserving my legs. I knew they would ache by day's end. But I didn't dream that I'd have a fall.

As I've said before, my photos are really meant to remind me of all the great times I've had, 66 years and counting!

Roll em Ruthie!

Vietnam Memorial. Tom, the retired Verizon man sitting next to me, was in the Navy and was in a battleship and swam in the Gulf of Tonkin.

I knew several guys who fought in the war: My cousin Dan Sewell who was really messed up after he came home, David Moyer who was in a foxhole when the Vietcong came dangerously close, and Marine Frank Marrone whose wife died of cancer and he recently remarried.

This is a statue of the women who were in the Vietnam War. Never heard of it before.

The huge WWII memorial. Again, I was saving my legs so I just strolled by.

More WWII.

There were LONG LINES at most of the Smithsonian museums. But the art museums were not crowded, so that's where I spend most of my time.

My friend Judy Diaz told me about the National Museum of Women in the Arts.

Outstanding! My sister Ellen was a friend of the director's - Susan Fisher (now Susan Fisher Sterling) - when we lived in Shaker Heights. We lived on Glenmore Road, she lived on Shelbourne.

I took a taxi to the women's museum. Unlike Philly or NYC, the cabs are not government-regulated, so everyone can charge what they want. All the cabs look different. I had a nice guy from Nigeria drive me to the museum. He had a blue van with sliding doors. I couldn't shut the door myself so he had to get out. You also had to step very high up. Not good for old ladies.

I told him about a movie Scott and I recently watched called The Bone Collector w/Denzel and Angelina. A cab driver kidnaps people and kills them, scraping out a bone for a souvenir. Tres suspenseful.

The above lithograph has an Emily Dickinson poem printed on it about a spider.

A book cut-out.

The previous works were on the ground floor. Mary Grady, who sat at the reception desk, helped me choose what to view. She's coming to Philly for Easter to see her kids. I thanked her when I left, but didn't tell her about my fall.

I took the stairs to the old masters room.

The museum, founded 25 yrs ago, is exquisitely beautiful. Forgot to ask Mary what the bldg used to be. Every little detail was gorgeous. So much to feast your eyes upon. Sorta like my house - seriously - where every spot in my living room office is covered with something b'ful or interesting like this:

Air Force Pilot, cover of LIFE, July 19, 1943. Ten cents a copy.

What could be more b'ful than this? That's Mary at her reception desk.

From their brochure I learned that the bldg, built in 1908, is Renaissance Revival and was formerly a Masonic temple.

Flowers in the cafe.

Contemporary art and sculpture.

Loved this foto of David slaying Goliath. It's hard to see his enemy's face but it's grotesque. BTW, did you watch The Ten Commandments on TV Saturday nite? Charleton Heston's son played baby Moses, an Egyptian name.

I only watched bits n pieces cuz I was at a Passover seder at my 'inlaws.' The living room TV always has sports on, but we three women - Natalie (Scott's mom) and Debbie (his sister) had the Samsung kitchen TV on.

This one was a real beauty, full of great details: King Philip II of Spain Upon Hearing News of the Destruction of the Armada.

Mother and her son after a flood.

This is by famed artist Alice Neel (1900-1984). This young man has been shot by a bullet and will die shortly.





These are women in the Manhattan section of Soho. (South of Houston street. Houston pronounced HOW-ston. My sister Donna used to live there. She was a potter and gave live demonstrations that you could see from Macy's outside window.)

Loved this mystical painting of rainfall.

The always recognizable Louise Nevelson. Actually there's another sculptress I thought was Nevelson, but she's Louise Bourgeois.

The young Louise Nevelson - birth name Leah Berliawsky - and her family immigrated from Czarist Russia to the US. They spoke Yiddish at home but Louise quickly learned l'anglais, as we say en francais.

The two sculptures on the right are by Nevelson. I love the one directly in front with all its interesting shapes. The painting in the back shows a powerful woman: Ruth as she was falling.

View out the window from the Nevelson room. Museum is at the corner of New York Avenue and 13th Street, NW.

I'll tell ya, I was really enchanted by all the artwork. The museum was practically empty!

This work, made of wax and melted wax, hung from the ceiling by the window. The artist was raised Catholic and this gaily colored sculpture aspires to show the contradictions inherent in the Catholic religion. Celibate priests, pedophile priests, good priests, hatred of gays, which they say is espoused in the Bible. So what? The bible is merely one book out of millions in the world.

Why not read books by gay authors such as James Baldwin, experience art work by gay men such as Andy Warhol, or poetry by gay women such as the late Adrienne Rich?

They have made enormous contributions to the world. Are they not God's children?

Fascinating painting. Look at the little man at the tail of the wounded bird and the skeletons grinning on the side.

Wonderful room of B&W photography.

I was fainting away when I saw these fotos. My friend Helene Ryesky uses that term.

Here I was really fainting away. I love abstract art.

There were many paintings from female Mexican artists, magical realism, like Freda Kahlo coming up. I still hadn't fallen, so I didn't realize how lucky I was. Lugged around my heavy backpack which contained food for the entire day and diabetes supplies.

Done by an African artist.

This is an unmistakable Georgia O'Keefe.

Here's Frida now, carrying a letter from Leon Trotsky, espousing her belief in Marxism. Trotsky, who became her lover, was gunned down by an assassin sent by Stalin.

Trotsky's great- granddaughter Nora Volkaw lived in the house where he was killed. She's now head of the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA).

This painting captures the excitement of The Big Apple.

Loved this image of mother and child. The woman looks sort of like the image of Andrew Wyeth's lover. Look, how can artists not wanna sleep w/their beautiful models?

As a former pianist, couldn't resist this shot of a female-made pianoforte or whatever the heck it is. My piano teacher, Mrs. Ann (husband Ted) Kultti - Lebanese name - died aboard a cruise ship. In my diabetes support group, a guy worked about a cruise ship. He said there are four different morgues on the ship. Just in case.

My watch said 1:45, time to get moving. Departure time was 5 pm.

Am walking down the b'ful curving stairway when - plunk - I missed the bottom step and fell to my left, causing great pain to my knee. I quickly stood up, you should really take your time after a fall, adjusted my super-heavy backpack and carefully walked down anudder flight of stairs.

My knee was stinging but I didn't have a bandaid. As I walked, I thot, I bet it drew blood. First thing I did when I came home was wash it off and cover w/a CVS bandaid in my drawer.

I stopped into the Museum of Natural History which was so crowded I left. Decided to stick with art museums. This is good ole George Washington.

I was so grateful for all the water fountains. When Sarah and I went to Europe 2 yrs ago, there were none!

This is known as the Mall. Gravel path on outskirts, kind to the feet.

Next stop Freer Museum, with Sackler Museum attached. If only this were in Willow Grove I'd go down every day.
The gallery was founded by Charles Lang Freer (1854–1919), a railroad-car manufacturer from Detroit, who gave his collections to the United States and also the funds to help construct a building for their display. The Italian-Renaissance-style gallery, constructed in granite and marble, was inspired by Freer's visits to palazzos in Italy
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In front of the Freer, methinks. Basically everywhere you look downtown is impossibly beautiful!

I really dug this restroom door, made of wood, and the walls of granite or marble. That Freer was one rich dude!

Nice selection of paintings by James McNeill Whistler.

Asian art galleries.



Sacred cow. What does a cow say, Gracie? My teats hurt.

How nicely the god fills the space.

Exquisite Japanese panels by Hokusai. He inspired many artists including Van Gogh, Gauguin and Manet. Wish you could see the traveling turtles up close. Motion in painting.

Hokusai's panels tell stories, just like when you look outside you can see stories. There goes Nancy from across the street in her red Toyota wagon. Doubtless she's heading to her son Wayne's house in Warrington for Easter dinner.

Jade from mines in China.

These bronze-made figures warmed up wine. The legs were stuck in fire pits.

He's a giant - 12 feet high or so - built to warn people from trespassing on an official's property.

Pottery. Everything in these rooms is incredibly old.

The Peacock Room. The entire room was moved from London to the Freer.

Oh, it looks like I'm in the National Museum of African Art, part of the Smithsonian, so it's free. Every time I went in the Smithsonian, guards searched my backpack, poking it with a stick.

I have about 6 zippered compartments. They were very nice and told me how organized I am, cuz I have initials by each pocket such as D for diabetes supplies.

I believe this is a headdress worn for ceremonial purposes in an African country.

I really flipped over these paintings. Unfortunately, goggle no longer lets us "click to enlarge."

After all the concrete, it was nice to see this secret garden, flanking the side of the Hirschhorn Gallery, designed by Mary Livingston Ripley, wife of one of the Smithsonian's directors.

Gorgeous tulips. I always bend down to smell the flowers. They really appreciate it.

What you don't know from the foto is that this is a huge sculpture filled to the brim with flowers I couldn't even glimpse.

The Hirschhorn Museum and Sculpture Garden has many outdoors sculptures such as these down a sloping hill. Two years ago Scott and I loped down, but not this time when 'time was of the essence.'

Alexander Calder sculpture out front.

This takes some explaining. Ready? No, am I ready?

This post is taking forever. Probly three hours so far.

These photos are from the exhibit "Suprasensorial: Experiments in Light, Color and Space" by five Latin American artists.

The viewer stands on the outside - like I did - and sees what's going on inside: people strolling thru.

Would've liked to go in and be all lit up. Now I'm lit up by the sun. And the thought that Jesus has risen. Oh, I forgot I'm Jewish.

One guy asked the guard where the labels were to the artwork. In other words, he wanted to see the names of the artists.

I'll tell you something. I like going to museums by myself. I can do what I want w/o inconveniencing anyone.

This was really cool! Strands of bright blue rubber-like material you pushed your way through. My hanging eyeglasses got caught so I tucked em in my shirt.

Here's a single strand.

Very cool! There was a movie playing - and you made yourself comfortable on these mats and cushions. Sure felt good to relax.

I usually nap during the day but on the trip I wasn't even tired until I sat down.

An old favorite by Picasso of mother and child.

Baby dearest.

Loved this by a black artist similar to Romare Bearden. I think they're making shoes.

"Half-naked Men Holding Christ" by black artist Marsden Hartley, 1877-1943. This foto is from this blog.


Spring Flowers.

David Smith (1906-1965), one of my favorite sculptors. In later years, he did monumental work for the great outdoors. Lyndon Johnson appointed him for the National Council of the Arts. Later that year, when he was 59 yrs old, he died in a car crash.

I headed back to the bus in plenty of time. 5 pm departure time at the Air and Space Museum, the most popular museum in DC. Didn't realize there were two entrances, front and back.

Saw my new friends Sandy and Will Johns at the bus stop. They're from Fort Washington. I told them I thot Will looks like one of our former presidents. Can u guess who? They went to the very crowded American History Museum to see the gowns of president's wives, including Michele's. She's a really snazzy dresser. Her shoes were also there. But me, I was cruising thru the art museums.

Abbey Road. The reason I shot this was b/c there was a blinking neon-sign - in the back on the left - that read No Left Turn. Never saw such a sign before.

Everyone was starving and ready for dinner at Union Station. Last time Scott and I were there - with my friend Jonatha Johnson - we ate on the lower level in the food court.

Now I wanted a delicious meal.



Ate a turkey cheese-burger at the Thunder Grill, minus the roll, and had a few french fries.

I checked my diabetes numbers outside - they were good - so I waited to inject until I was at table.

Brought all my own food from home, checking my sugars before eating: chunks of caraway Havarti cheese, Triscuits for my carbs, egg salad I made the night before, and peanuts.

Busdriver Bob Bergey constantly monitors the roads and learned there were traffic jams on the route he usually takes.

We detoured so that we crossed the beautiful Francis Scott Key Bridge in Baltimore. It's very long. Linda covered her eyes with her hood since she's afraid of crossing bridges. My dad had a phobia of driving over bridges. I can't drive thru tunnels if they're too long.

The English Channel Tunnel opened in 1994.

On our way home. Bob got us safely back to Lightpole No. 5 at Montgomery Mall.

When my kids were little, I used to drive to a comic book store for Daniel. It was next to a car parts store w/a man made out of radiator parts.

The moon was out when I drove home along 309. I missed the first turn toward home - I had written the word EAST - on my pad, but luckily there was a U-turn, like like on the way there.

At the Museum of African Art I bought the above bracelet made in Kenya. It was in the sale basket for $9.

I couldn't resist this lovely wall hanging from Nigeria, made on banana skin paper.

That's me, this morning, when the kids came over.

Signing off, yours truly, Ruth Z Deming. I keep the Z in the there cuz Deming is my former husband's name.

Monday, April 2, 2012

Linda Barrett's Poem about Yours Truly - More Party Photos

Linda Barrett, prolific poetess.

Greenwold-Deming-Cartagena-Roche Family.

My g'dtr Grace Catherine has fun on my back porch with her second cousin Paddy Roche.

RUTH: A TWO-ACT PLAY

The play opened on an April Sunday Afternoon,
in a small Willow Grove theater
the stage set, resembling
a brightly designed suburban house
in the early part of the 21rst century
the heroine, a 66 year old Renaissance woman
celebrating her re-birth and renewal
through a kidney transplant
donated by her 38 year old daughter,
her lithe figure contributed to boxing
our heroine praised as well
by a numerous dramatis personae:
including four generations of her immediate family:
all possessing Ruth's swarthy and fine brows
her mother, her sisters, her children
nieces and nephews, their own healthy issue
and her first grand daughter,
aptly named Grace
this play's cast also included:
numerous friends and fellow players
in Ruth's performance
their lines well rehearsed for many years
expertly ad-libbed and researched
some came early for their parts
others came late
yet better than never
this performance's climax came
when the boxer daughter gave a toast
declaring her mother's good fortune
Ruth the heroine spoke
of her new kidney,
naming it Odyessus
after returning it to fit at her side
During the climax,
The Greek chorus of Ruth's sister
and a personal friend
spoke of a Jazz Age bard's remark
that life had no second acts
Whereas the Sister
and the poet friend gesticulated
that God gave Ruth
Her rare second act.

@2012 Linda Barrett

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Our First Kidneyversity! The Greenwold-Demings know how to throw a great party! - Carolyn's Poem for me: Ruth's Kidney

Lamppost garden is party-ready.

Neil was the first to arrive. We sat in the kitchen, drank coffee, and talked and talked. A very interesting guy, Neil has twin girls in college - Brittany and Amanda - and a son who's a Cheltenham police officer.

My amazing daughter Sarah Lynn Deming who coordinated the party and kept assuring me, "Mom, we have plenty of time, we'll get everything done."

And we did!

On the stove behind Sarah is hot spiced apple cider she made and vegetarian chili I made.

Sarah and I each have one kidney. She gave me hers exactly a year ago on a snowy April First. Today it rained a bit, the sun came out around 6, clouds returned and it rained some. Did we care? Would you complain if you're having a blast? Read about our operation here.

My own two kidneys, which surgeons leave in the body, are now completely useless and shriveled up.

I thank them, tho, for their wonderful 65-year tour of duty. A big round of applause please for the little fellows.

We love Fontaine who works at the Willow Grove Giant. She's a personal shopper for people who order over the Internet. Fontaine loves to shop and I'd often meet her at Impact Thrift (where I bot one of my couches). Now she gets paid to do it.

We had a nice contingent of people from Abington Friends School where Sarah graduated. She went to school with Jonathan Ford, who is married to Audrey, and they have a darling little boy Martin, named after Jon's grandfather. Martin loved climbing up the stairs and running around the upstairs rooms.

See the yellow push-button phone? Jon Ford artfully painted this in art class at AFS and gave it to us.

I also had a sign above the oven that read: Check oven for objects before turning on.

Every time Jon would come over he would open and close the oven.

The yellow daffodils are from the abandoned house a couple doors down. Sarah and I walked into the backyard. It's always fun to trespass and know you won't get caught.

Well, I walked on the backyard deck, which was wet, and I fell right down, didn't get injured and then we picked the golden daffa-down-dilly.

Mom's first cousin Lloyd drove in from Manhattan using his GPS. A former psychology professor at Queens College, he maintains a practice in Manhattan.

He told me he has a patient who refuses to take meds for depression. He's giving him biofeedback which he says works slowly. He asked what I would suggest. I recommended the man get counseling twice a week, journal, and get aerobic exercise.

Fontaine, whose daughter works at a hospital, said she met a woman who said she'd rather die than take medication.

My sister Ellen in fabulous scarf. She takes great c/o my mother, though she is only three.

This is from a poem by AA Milne... James James said to his mother, mother, he said, sad he; You must never go down to the end of the town, if you don't go down with me.

Larry Wilkins was the librarian when Sarah went to AFS. Now he's a guidance counselor who will retire next year. Boyfriend Scott is on the stairs. We bot this b'ful blue shirt at the shore so he could show off his big muscles.

Two other AFS teachers came, but their photos didn't show up: Fern Mofsen, Sarah's former middle-school English teacher, and Christine Long, upper-school English teacher who assigns her kids exercises with Twitter. They're currently reading Frankenstein. Who's the author? Why, the wife of poet Percy Bysshe Shelley. Read Oxymandias here. You'll love it or I'll eat my diabetic pink sox.

Rob, how come you weren't at my party?

Ah, here's Judy Kroll, who's already planning for Passover. She went to back-to-back concerts to see Bruce Springsteen at the Wells Fargo Stadium.

The Boss wandered into the audience. This photo appeared on the Internet and our Judy is in the background looking like the kid she is inside.

Here's mom w/her granddaughter Jade.

Aside: I'm watching Twilight Zone now. This guy, Martin Balsam, has a wax museum in his basement of serial killers like Jack the Ripper. You know they're gonna come alive. Though I wasn't the least bit afraid of my kidney operation, or my back surgery last August, I am t-t-terrified of the Twilight Zone. To solve the problem, I pressed MUTE!

Oh, no! I CAN'T SPEAK!

Sister Lynn who lives in New Hope. Her oldest child, Jade, will be married in June.

Nicole and Grace Catherine who stuck an entire fat strawberry in her mouf. I'm called Bubby to my g'dtr to preserve our Jewish tradition. Rich Fleisher is called Zayde to his grandson Alex Reid, tho Ada goes by Grandmom.

Niece Nikki and Jade's fiancee Matt.

(Jack the Ripper just killed Martin Balsam's wife. Martin had previously told her he loves all the criminals in his basement and talks to them every morning.)

I told Ron Abrams he looks like a wise rabbi. He's an atty who will fly to CA to visit his granddaughter Miryam. Ron's daughter is expecting a son any day now.

He told a great story about an atty friend of his who donated her kidney to her husband after initially refusing. Should that be part of the marriage vows?

Thing is, it's a chilling thought to donate a kidney. But when you're the recipient - like moi - you desire it more than anything!

The Weinsteins - Arleen and Stephen - chat w/Ada. They bot me a terrific gift: Goat Soap. I was getting tired of Irish Spring, of which I have an endless supply.

They recently visited the Wharton Esherick Museum, where we'd gone on Ada's Outing. Scott talked to them about their favorite vacation spot: Belize, the former British Honduras, where English is the primary language. They snorkel there and pet the underwater animals.

If only Scott weren't afraid to fly.

What you don't know is that on the Left are mom's Pecan Tarts, one of the greatest desserts ever invented, equal only to Ada's moist double-chocolate brownies.

Hello Barb! She works at Citizens Bank - hey another bank w/its own stadium - and just licked her platter clean. Lynn's delicious vegetarian lasagna.

Family.

Neighbor Patrick lives in the catty-corner blue house. He's an electrician by trade. His dad comes over to babysit the kids.

Patrick, a former wedding photographer, who would tell the brides "Stick out your breasts," brot Sarah and me a wonderful gift.

He was at my pre-kidney transplant party last year - doesn't time go by so quickly? - and brought us each a framed photo of ourselves.

One time I met Patrick's dad at the eye doctor's. He was waiting for his wife. We stood in the downstairs hallway and jabbered for 45 minutes.

The art of conversation. That's what this party was all about.


My sister Donna stayed afterward to help clean up, as did Mom, who vacuumed the living room, and boyfriend Scott who is entering his "sixth sensational season" as my boyfriend. The quote is actually from the Tavis Smiley Show.

RUTH'S KIDNEY


Ruth's new kidney
must be special for her
Donated by her daughter
it matched perfectly.

Does this kidney filter out
lines of poetry that emanate
from her brain working overtime
to write thousands of poems?

It also does wonders with blogs
that are read everywhere
Just how it affects the internet
Only the kidney knows how.

As her friends we are grateful
that our mental health worker
has a good kidney now
She is with us, healthy and WOW.

So Ruth take care of your kidney
a miracle for sure
Forgive this sing song poem
from a non-transplant poet.

WISH I COULD BE WITH YOU ALL

Carolyn Constable April 1, 2012